disillusionment

Taking the dream and making it real. Dis- illusion-ment Illusion is the dream, and disillusionment is necessary to take the dream and fit it into the current reality. It sounds like a bad experience, but it is actually the only…

Hard stops

What is a hard stop? I have heard people use that term for technology. They meant- you can’t go on, if you don’t complete this part of the required documentation. I have heard this for meetings. It meant, we are…

In your hands

In your hands

A friend called to tell me about an epiphany she had after spending a frustrating morning with her 16 yr old daughter.  As the story started out, I thought, well this is just classic teenage girl stuff. We have all…

Time in a Bottle

Time in a Bottle

I want to remind a special 39 year old that each year, there is the same amount of time. Use it wisely. Forty plus years ago, Jim Croce sang soulfully about capturing time. Time in a Bottle- imagine if you…

Perseverance Pays

Perseverance Pays

Perseverance is defined as: steadfastness in doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success. Synonyms: tenacity, determination, staying power, persistence Grit= passion + perseverance “Don’t give up when the cookie crumbles”. There’s a special ingredient in Mrs. Fields’ cookies that…

dream dodger

dream dodger

As usual, I had some things on my mind and just came up with a title for the feeling.It feels like I am seeing my dreams arriving like the promise of a rainbow- only I feel turned around and like…

Tiny houses- what gives?

Have you been watching HGTV- Tiny House Hunters?  What about Treehouse Masters? If a 34 ft sailboat has about 125 sq ft of living space and a tiny house, RV or tree house have the same, what makes them different?…

Real world

Real world

Welcome to the real world. How does that song go? Today, I was driving my mother around at the beach and she told me that I was “not like my sister” ( who I am like ) and that I…

P.O. Boxes

P.O. Boxes

  Have you been following the USPS story? Latest headline, “The U.S. Postal Service made a strong first impression in fiscal 2016, marking the second consecutive year in which it posted a billion-dollar profit.”  It wasn’t too long ago that folks…

trip dread

Have you ever scheduled a trip and as the time to leave came closer, you got more anxious than happy? Trip dread. It’s the wish to be there already, without the effort it takes to get there. You want what…